Talking About Condoms With Your Partner

One of the most important aspects of sexual health is communication. Many people avoid conversations about condoms out of fear of rejection or awkwardness — but these conversations are a sign of maturity and mutual respect.

How to start the conversation

Choose a calm, private moment — not in the heat of the moment
Use "I" statements: "I feel more comfortable when we use condoms"
Frame it as care for both of you, not distrust

If your partner resists

A partner who refuses to use condoms is not respecting your health. You have the right to insist. No sexual activity is worth risking your health over.

Making it part of intimacy

Condoms do not have to interrupt the moment. Incorporating them into foreplay can make it a natural, even pleasurable, part of sex.

Remember

Consent includes agreeing on protection. Healthy relationships involve open dialogue about sexual health.